the art of letting go.

i know there’s no easy way in moving on. live with pain every hour.every minute. memories keep coming back.flashbacks and more flashbacks. then you start questioning yourself what went wrong. you keep on looking on your phone hoping a single message or missed call coming from him. you never forget every special dates in your calendar. it reminds you of that person tru colors, foods, places..why is it that sometimes we have to get trough all of these? inlove in a minute? heartbroken the following minute. 

we all dream of fairytales. we all believed in happy ending and happily ever after..and i guess thats the reason why we always have hard time in moving on…in letting go.we hope for reconciliation.we believe that everything would be all right and everything would be just the same..the same feeling that we had on the first day. now the question is this…HOW TO MOVE ON?

admit it.. we all wet trough of bein heartbroken (for those who havent experienced it yet..my warmest congratulations!..lol.but for those who have went trough and presently in there…limme just sharemy experiences..believe me..it really works..but then again..limme also remind you that these steps may or may not work for you too.hehehe.

1. change ur simcard. y? ampotah kung gusto mo tlga makalimot..kalimutan mo pati number nia para ndi ka lage tumitingin sa cp mo kung may message sya!

2. get drunked. it works.trust me. magpakalasing ka hanggat gusto mo.until marealize mo na  di na worth it para magpakalasing ka

3. itapon lahat ng gifts/remembrances. ex is ex.past is past. as simple as that.what’s the fun of keeping those stuffs ayt?

 4. Never date. this is a big NO-NO. maawa ka sa sarili mo making urself believe na ul be ok pag may bago ka.at most of all maawa ka sa ka-date mo for it would be really unfair..simply ur just using him/her.

5. cry.cry.cry.- yes… i cried…modaf*&*^r! i feel no shame for that. it made me realize that its all done.tapos.

6. eat more. simply because pag hindi ka kakain..ospital ang sunod na pupuntahan mo..and pag nagkasakit ka dahil sa pagiging heartbroken…mas nakakahiya un…sasabhan ka ni angelina ng : whatever yaya..youre such a losser!

7. be with friends.spend time with your family. things that you seldom do before..now its time to do it. they could be of help lalo na when it comes to “sense of belongingness” ..coz ur on your peak of loneliness…so you need someone to talk to.someone who could give you advices.

8. go infront of the mirror.talk to your self. and stare closely. at tsabihin mo sarili mo..: “gwapo ako.bat kaya nia ako iniwan.labo naman ng mata nia.”  ..then have a good sleep.

9. dont blame anyone. always remember that everything has made to have a purpose.and this is no excuse.

10. pray. ive never been religious entire my life.but i was able to ask guidance and strength from HIM. HE knows exactly what’s best for you..so trust HIM…now thats a FACT!

i hope these steps would help you too..hahaha..i know a lot of people who needs this.